Aquarian philosopher Simone Weil formulated resolutions so as to avoid undermining herself. First, she vowed she would only deal with difficulties that actually confronted her, not far-off or hypothetical problems. Second, she would allow herself to feel only those feelings that were needed to inspire her and make her take effective action. All other feelings were to be shed, including imaginary feelings—that is, those not rooted in any real, objective situation. Third, she vowed, she would "never react to evil in such a way as to augment it."
One of the feelings we're choosing to focus on this year is forgiveness. Here's a video we recently came across that show forgiveness at its best. it features a 3-year old's response to his mother telling him that she ate all his Halloween candy. Precious.(And very forgiving...).